I'm getting it now, I don't know why, she won't tell me, but she does know it annoys the **** out of me, what pisses me off is that, ok, give me the silent treatment, but at least let me know what for...?
Go out on the bike or the pub with friends, leave her to her stupid games 🙂
Unless of course you think you may have done something bad, in which case go to the shops and buy some flowers 🙂
Birthday ?
wedding anniversary ?
Has she found the "thanks for your order " email .
Painters?
You're not meant to solve her problem, you're meant to be understanding and sympathetic about her problem.
Painters?
You're not meant to solve her problem, you're meant to be understanding and sympathetic about her problem.
Agreed. Good luck solving that one!
I just need to know what the problem is..!!
but at least let me know what for...?
You're supposed to [i]know[/i] what for! Saying you don't just makes it worse because you've clearly forgotten something important, which is why you're getting the silent treatment. 😉
Has she found the "thanks for your order " email .
Proper lolled at this 😆
You should know, if you don't, then you should..
Edit, you're toast...
My wife stopped talking to me for a few hours once. She then said "Right, now I'm talking to you.....". She was even angrier when I said I hadn't noticed she'd been giving me the silent treatment. 😀
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ignore the silent treatment and talk to her even more.
and say "yes dear" to everything she says, when she starts talking(ranting} to you again, winds them up big time 😆
WOMEN, can't live with them, can't bury them under the patio!
Its when she tells you and she only knows about something small and not the big thing you did you can breathe a sigh of relief.
Its the "what's the matter" answered by " nothing" that gets me as I then have to think which "nothing" she actually knows about and is mad about. Hence I never fess up incase I simply dig a bigger hole.
Just suck it up, or go the pub and get some space.
Keep making her laugh, annoys the hell out of my wife that she can't keep serious annoyed face!
Do something domestic around the house, hoovering, washing, dusting, etc etc..
Surely the silent treatment's better than the shouty throwy treatment?
Always worth that bit of extra effort to get the silent treatment. Sound advice from John Cooper Clarke.
Good time to announce that trip to the Alps with the boys?
How I long for silence..<looks into distance with wistful face>
Previous gf soon learned that giving me the silent treatment or declaring "I'm not speaking to you!" was not very effective. Instead she would tell me about her friends, who said what to who, so and so's new hairdo etc...... I still have nightmares now.... 🙁
I wish I had someone to give me the silent treatment. Think yourself lucky
I wish I had someone to give me the silent treatment. Think yourself lucky
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bencooper - Member
You're not meant to solve her problem, you're meant to be understanding and sympathetic about her problem.
Truest words ever
You are lsd's alter ego and I claim my HSS™
Whirly bird her then try and feel her boobs, always good for a reaction.
bencooper - Member
You're not meant to solve her problem, you're meant to be understanding and sympathetic about her problem.
utter bollocks, you need to do both. and you need to stop reading her copies of Look magazine.
utter bollocks, you need to do both. and you need to stop reading her copies of Look magazine.
Nope, Mr Kinetics is very true.
I worked it out a few years and it's utter madness, and infuriating if you're a kind of solver/fixer/logic kind of guy.
Jamie - Member
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that's only because they believe the utter bollocks in Look magazine too.
it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Oooh! My horoscope warned me this would happen....
Perhaps she suspects that you are [b]assumedidentiti[/b] 😯
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Test card treatment - vision no sound
I get this cr@p from time to time and in my opinion it is an unacceptable way to behave. You have my sympathy.
Speaking from experience, when your OH declares that they are not speaking to you do NOT ask if you can have some sort of guarantee in writing. It will not be well received.
Although it will earn you a couple of days worth of lovely peace and quiet....
sugdenr - Member
Keep making her laugh, annoys the hell out of my wife that she can't keep serious annoyed face!POSTED 1Trickmeister - Member
Do something domestic around the house, hoovering, washing, dusting, etc etc..
Go spend a weeks wages on a stem ,seat post and handlebar , that will teach her !
Personally I would rather be ignored than have my head-pecked.
Have you tried drawing a face on the end of your penis and telling her that your friend wants to talk to her?
Works like a charm, honest.
The contents of this thread is why I keep coming back to STW...such, empathy, good advice and out right pi*s taking 🙂
Have you tried Rodeo sex?
That's when you take her from behind and whisper 'Your sister's better at this than you' then see how long you can hang on for.
Works like a charm, honest.
Sulking...not attractive LOL
1. don't deal with it, it's not your problem, you deal with your emotions, right? then expect the same from her, she's an adult not a kid.
2. Its a way of trying to manipulate you but they don't have the emotional strength for the argument or confrontation, or they think they're not going to get their way, so don't let them. when they get that sulking isn't gonna work they'll have to resort to OMG...actually talking!!
3. consider whether it's really ok to have to put up with this sort of child/adult stuff in your life. I did for a bit, but I got bored with it.
but at least let me know what for...?
Thats the whole point mate.
If youre quick you can still pretty wasted down the pub..
