Things should be amicable and we both want the best for the kids…
That’s the secret, to always think about the kids. I left when my girls were 9 and 5 and I made a conscious decision not to slag off their Mum in front of them, even though it was difficult at times. Nearly 5 years on, there are still things to sort out but I have great relationships with both girls. Another thing I’ve always tried to do is take the girls as often as I can, even if it means cancelling whatever I have planned. Last thing, I’ve been honest with the kids about everything – new girlfriends, moving flats, selling the family home. I’ve tried to talk to them about it as soon as I could.
It’s not much but I hope it helps. All the best for the future.