Hello,
Right firstly MTFU, yes it’s unplanned yes it’s F###ing epically scary, life changing but you’ve done it now. You love your wife, you’re happy (I assume?) so you’ll be a dad.
Worrying about bonding is fine, I was never one of these we’re pregnant Dad’s that’s not me, but once it arrives you’ll start to bond, relax it will take a bit of time but love it and start to build a relationship.
You’re wife needs support she’s feeling shocked too, and vulnerable, again it’s you’re job to step up mate.
I won’t Bull##it you it’s tough, money and energy sapping, the small person will demand a huge amount of time, she’ll( your wife) be wrecked you’ll be wrecked that’s life.
On the plus side it’s great, the mini you will be a right laugh as they get bigger, time flies and actually pull get to ride your bike etc etc.honestly I can relate, hence the rough points above (I got this chat you see) I wouldn’t trade either of my two or the world nd riding my bike with a four year old mini me and getting ice cream is as good as the best trails, road races I’ve ever done I know this doesn’t make sence right now!
You’ll be great mate, chill. 😀