Ok Surfer, as you seem unable to grasp what I mean, let me add the words to my initial post which might make it clearer, even to you and Ernest……….
The thing that strikes me most about it is the fact he just sat there and did nothing for +/- 30 seconds while the girl was upset/sobbing and unable to continue with her speech……………………..
Does that clarify my statement or are you going to continue to be obtuse for the sake of it?