Life is too short to have that kind of shit! From the wise words of the Disney Film Frozen ” let it go, let it go-o..la la la la la..”
And I always follow these words someone says iirc on a telly ages ago ” if you are not part of a solution, you are a problem, and I have to go” …..i know life is helping and blah blah blah like that, but then again you can only help so much … Even god helps only to those who are able to help themselves, ..read this somewhere, bible i guess.