I think people might be conflating two things here: favourite books are not generally the life changers – The Hobbit is one of my favourite books and I’ve read it many times since I was 13 or so
Still have it as a ‘comfort book’ for when times are depressing or I’m stressed
But did it or has it changed me? No – not sure how it can. Same with Gormenghast – a descriptive tour de force and a wonderful creative narrative means for many its one of the best books they have ever read….but how does it change your life?
“Bandler & Grindler – NLP, this followed on from Unlimited Power, well it was the 90’s and we were all doing it. Now all the techniques have been dissolved into normal working life, but at the time the techniques and philosophies were ground breaking. Show me a successful business man that hasn’t read either of these two.”
You are kidding right? NLP is hilarious at best and a nasty piece of work at worst
I think I’ll nominate The Starship and the Canoe as a book that fundementally changed my perception of life – you can read it at any age but its good if you do it early!