Update
firstly i bought him a new car because he was driving a 280bhp subaru, so a small honda seemed a better bet…..
he went to the doctors this morning, doctor gave him the once over and sugested that as he has problems walking and turning his head he should think about giving up driving
this went down like a sack of poo
doctor called me afterwards and told me everything that had happened
i had to wait till lunchtime and called my father who told me the doctor had sent him for a blood test and everything else was fine
i pushed him a little into telling me what happened (he did not tell me everything)
the important thing is he told me that the doctor had the audacity to tell him he shouldn’t be driving as he couldn’t move his head
“And i told him I have a reversing camera”
“I’m never going to that doctor again”
don’t know what the next step is
thankfully he can’t drive the car at the moment as the battery is flat
and i have the charger