I didn’t think I wanted them, I was 20 when my first was born, sh*t myself and genuinely didn’t think I could do it as I never liked anyone elses kids (still don’t really like other peoples kids) but I wouldn’t change a thing sure I missed out on a lot of nights out with the lads etc but i don’t regret it for one second.
Just don’t think blokes are programmed like women, the instincts don’t really kick in until you hold them and realise you will do anything for them.
Got two now and everyday is full of noise, stress and mess! Can’t remember what quiet is tbh