Thanks for the suggestions but I have managed to cope so far with selling off most of my bikes and some help from family I have been able to just about keep up with the stuff that is needed like clothes etc
Im fairly certain their mum has been buying them toys and stuff to keep at her house but has made no contributions to feeding/clothing them etc…
It gets to me a bit sometimes when I start to think they might prefer being with her even though they clearly arent her priority and their behaviour/school work has improved a lot since I have been looking after them and they are happy but at the end of the day they are just little kids so the fact their mums house has a playstation is always going to be appealing. Im sure eventually they will realise I was the one who gave up everything to care for them when it was needed.
Regarding the GP situation I was able to come to an agreement with the judge of just showing them my medication as proof as they agreed the doctor was being needlessly obstructive.