Well done for sharing, this place can be great for telling randomers stuff you hardly tell anyone…
I’ve been there, was controlled and cut off from most of my friends for years. She would ring me and demand I came home work for some stupid reason and if I said I can’t she would ring my works number 50+ times just hanging up when someone answered until I phoned her back so she could threaten me…
only ended last year and we have kids together so I still have to see her which doesn’t help.
I’m much happier now without her but the worst part is as I have the kids and there are ongoing court proceedings over that she has told everyone I was the abusive one and that was why she left (she was seeing someone else was the real reason)