I worked in the US for 14 weeks sometime ago, and on my return the missus at the time, had moved down to Eastbourne to work and was frosty cold on the phone, she basically told me she didn't want to go out with me anymore.
But i wasn't letting her get away with it that easy, i demanded to see her and jumped on the NationalExpress down there, listening to the wedding present all the way down to get myself fired up, she was working so i listened to more TWP and then gave her a right rollicking, we called it quits and we remained friends.
best to get it off your chest, . . I'm not suggesting a trip to Vietnam, but I'd insist on a mutual coming together when she gets back so that she can explain herself, . . .if she agrees of course!
I had another brief relationship with a girl who went traveling to India, I was even ticking the days off until her return, she sent me postcards and letters explaining how it had opened her eyes and she'd met some bloke who gave her massages and rides on elephants, picture it, . . I still didn't really click and she dumped me as soon as she got back, . . she refused to see me for me to get some things from her house, so I left a nice letter in return, explaining how upset I was, . . . .
p.s. I'm still listening to The Wedding Present and am getting married next year, so have faith in a happy ending, this ones not going anywhere, I keep her in a cage under the sink unit!! 😉