I’m appalled with many of the answers on here. Especially the Taken film comment. As someone else posted, I’m amazed that you leave the house at all with that attitude. I’m equally appalled that many “parents” (I’m assuming most are as you all seem to be speaking from personal experience (sic)) think it fine to ban/stop this young lady from experiencing the world herself and would rather use your own narrow minded opinions instead.
Emsz also has some very good points: do you let her go to festivals? Or drinking in city centers? IMHO those are significantly worse than travelling in Europe!
This +1 for the most sensible answer.
Midnighthour – Member
CTC sites and outdoors web sites have contact lists to gather together people who are looking for companions to travel to places. If your daughter wishes to find company she could post there.
Also as mentioned, ask your daughter to enquire on their forums about experiences. She may well have read up already if she is keen to go.
She could also seek the advice of the British foreign office or the tourist boards/government offices of the counties in question.
Its very sad if you bully your daughter or treat her like owned property though – to make her look after YOUR fears and dependence. Yes, talk to her about risks and benefits of travel. But don’t undermine her. Don’t act like you own her. “Let her” is an appalling phrase to use about someone who has been an adult for many years – how would you feel if you were treated like property? A child is not property and your girl is no longer even a child.
The unfortunate thing about loving anyone is that it is full of risks and fears – but you cant cage people because of that or none of us would ever be able to even leave the house.
Josie Dew – this woman has biked the world on her own – try her many books – they are dully written but never the less, she has gone great distances and survived quite well – as did Ann Mustoe who also wrote many books. One retired, one very young. Both were happy with their choice to bike alone for thousands of miles.
Give your girl advice, self belief and respect. Don’t give her the responsibility for your fears.