So you *are* having more fun than when you were with your ex, it’s just yuor idea of fun isn’t jet skiing and partying, it’s being in a new relationship.
Actually, the main plus of being out of the previous relationship is having a decent, healthy relationship with my boys, which was proving impossible within it.
The fact that I am now in a far healthier relationship is an unexpected bonus.
My point is, if you have small children that you should be taking responsibility for, a playboy lifestyle probably isn’t realistic.
Too many* men walk away from relationships and use it as an excuse to walk away from their parental responsibilities as well. And then whinge when they are made to pay maintenance.
And as for ‘MGTOW’; Just wow. Any bloke that thinks that’s a reasonable worldview needs to take a serious look at themselves.
Would also like to second (third?) the ‘don’t assume that you moving out would be best’ advice. It’s outdated and sexist. You are an equal partner in regards to parental responsibility.
*Obviously loads don’t, too, but it definitely happens.