I’d be looking for a different photographer
And I think you’d find it hard to find one that doesn’t have a model release clause in their contract. As I said, it’s pretty standard practice. For all the reasons above ^^ And Doc-blues makes some excellent points.
I’ve never had anyone quibble over that part of the contract – on the odd occasion that I’ve wanted to use an image for magazine advertising, I’ve always contacted the bride, groom or portrait client and asked if they would mind. All have been absolutely delighted, and made a point of going out and buying the mag.
Just for use in my online / print portfolio, I don’t even ask – never had a complaint yet.
The only time I’d consider waving the clause is if I had a client who was an undercover cop / top brass intelligence agent. And that’s never happened.