The whole question is actually whether photos should represent what is actually there and whether HDR increases or decreases the connection of the photo to “reality”
Absolutely. In my landscape photos I’m trying not to capture “reality”, whatever that is, but to capture and give the viewer the feeling of what it was like to be there at the time. If that needs HDR, exposure blending, ND grads, B&W, whatever I’ll do it.
Cameras don’t see like people do. You don’t look at a view and take it in all at once, your eyes flit across it adjusting exposure as they go and then you brain puts the whole thing together. That’s why quite often a nice “view” makes a horrible photo. Your brain has filtered out the pleasing bits- cameras don’t do that- that’s where the photographer comes in.