Thanks for your words guys. I think in a strange way we’d both feel better if there wasn’t any hope. She had some light bleeding and a stitch-like feeling 2-3 weeks ago and at the time we were told it was probably nothing to worry about but in hindsight it probably was. Logically, we think we know which way it’s going to go but we can’t greive and start the process of moving on while there’s still a chance that we’re wrong. That’s the hardest thing of all.