Alternatively, given the dynamic expressed in his most recent post – ” the dog has never been great with the kids, it can be domineering especially without me around”
sorry team. TOTALLY missed this bit.
Dog has to go. and it sounds like this was preventable. why was your dog that normally displays odd behavior allowed to be with young child when in frantic post-fireworks state?
we had our rage-fueled spaniel put down in 2009 due to continuing and worsening behavioral issues. (she had drawn blood on about 4 occasions in 2 months)
it broke my heart. the mrs was petrified of dogs as a result for a good 2-3 years.
but it’s a choice you have to make.
if it’s a one off due to extraneous conditions then i’d let the dog off with a warning. if it is part of their general behavioral problems then they have to go.
EDIT: after a 3 year break we tried again with a new puppy (non-rescue so we could have him from day 1) things to date are going well. there is nothing to say you can’t replace doggy in future. exposure to a good dog has helped the mrs immensely. I’m still very sad that the old dog had to go, but you have to put these things aside some times.