I have always been a happy person. I don’t have periods of sadness like some and I guess I have always been a bit ignarent and ignarence is bliss.
It wasn’t until a few years ago that I met Mrs Tommid (although we are not married), someone I wouldn’t normally have thought of as my type. She is 9 years older than me, I would have considered posher than me and more intelligent than me. But in a way that has what made us good together. We chllenge one and other and learn from each other.
We never wanted kids, Mrs Tommid had been married before. But three years ago we discussed how happy and settled we were and that actually both of us were being drawn to the idea of having a family. 18 months ago along came Bea our daughter.
I can honestly say that I am content. There are things I want, but I have learnt learnt that there is a big difference between want and need. I have a job that empowers me and drives me to be better as a colleague and not just an employee and tthat is worth more thaan money.
I am truley content. Lucky me. But for those who are’nt, it will come when you least expect it, but you have to be in the right place to allow these things in your life.