go slightly fast (less damping) with rebound on the front and slightly slow (more damping) with rebound on the back
keeps the front end up and stops the back end throwing you over the bars
When I say slightly thats from the reference of a middle ground.
otherwise unless you are finding it too soft bottoming out is a good thing (although i really struggle to bottom out air forks unless they are silly soft) I was recommended 3 (gentle) bottom outs per technical ride and you probly have it about right
Sorry otherwise as above – whats wrong with it now?