Thanks everyone for the comments so far. I should have given some more background but wanted to avoid biasing from the start. We are both brits, and our boys were both born in UK, but we moved to US nearly 7 years ago, to western massachusetts. Boys are now 7 and 10, and both bike and ski.
The school situation is an interesting aspect, it did worry us making the move originally but reality for us has been that it’s different to UK approach but not worse. Like many things it was unfamiliar so took some adjustment. Anyone have knowledge of whether church membership affects ability to get into the schools? am investigating ourselves too but personal experience always valuable!
Healthcare really depends too, so many providers and schemes, was really lucky that we moved here with my company from Uk so had confidence it was a decent company. Molgrips you are absolutely right that you have to be prepared to catch a big bill even with full coverage, the deductible (excess) on our policy is $12k a year, so we have to budget to spend that in a bad year.
The role is in the south of the city, and we’d love to be out of the city a bit but as you note Hannah it’s a booming market and very little option other than suburbia, which isn’t our ideal honestly. prices quite a bit higher than Western mass but just about affordable we think.
Thanks again!