You know TJ you really are one of the most crass and bombastic people.
Someone has a family member with a serious medical issue and wants to know more about it, for there own benefit (show me in the OP’s post where he says he is going to discuss any of the info gleaned with his mother) and you go for the kill, wha an insesitive cock!!
For MF a good friend of mine is currently undergoing a course of a new form of chemo(for breast cancer that has spread) she is currently on course 6 of an 18 treatment course (will not end until the end of this year) so far she has been feeling pretty good, had a bad cold just after cycle 5 as the chemo does attack your immune system, and she has odd days where she is tired usually pretty soon after treatment.
If you and or your mother have never read it Lance Armstrong’s book (yes I know loads on here h8 him) its not about the bike is very inspiring and deals in alot of detail with his cancer treatment .
Hope all goes well for you, and remember successful treatments are far more common now so its def worth fighting!!