I was dead keen on getting a van and had my heart set on a transporter. Until I hired one to move house. Horrible thing to drive, no way I would have one as a main vehicle over a car unless I absolutely had to for work, as I work in an office job this is not a likely scenario.
As an only vehicle there are too many downsides imho. Parking is a nightmare, increased tolls, lousy visibility, lack of comfort, poor driving position, heavy clutch, awful gearbox that feels like stirring porridge etc etc.
I still get a little van envy when I see a nice tricked out one, but for me it would only work as a second, occasional vehicle. There are too many compromises the rest of the time.
In your situation I would be buying a bike rack, and/or getting an estate car.