Phil – my parents always asked why I crate trained. They are from the old school of thought to just leave the puppy in the kitchen etc. after seeing how well it’s been for my first dog, and now how the new puppy is settling into it, I think they understand it now.
People need to view it as a ‘den’ for the dog – not a cage. The dog will also come to learn that.
Our 11 wk old lab now trots off into it for a sleep now through the day when there is a sofa, rug, older dogs bed alternative.
Yes the first few nights are hard- I spent them downstairs but by the 4th night she was sleeping 11pm – 6am. Never had any mess in there at all. Dogs don’t like to mess in their area. A small cage encourages them to try to hold it.