I started the thread as my wife and I were talking about it yesterday…..
We both agreed we wouldn’t be without them, love em to bits and they are our ‘everything’….
It is hard work, Lily is 3 1/2 and Fynn just a year. They are very different characters, Lily serious and moody with plenty of fire…. Which I love, she will be a force. Fynn is just mental, a smiley happy wrecking ball.
We live in Croatia, have a new, very busy, business, house renovation and, of course the kids…. Sometimes it is all to much. The kids do take everything you have and it is hard to have anything of the life you used to, we are now mummy and daddy and that is, seemingly, all we do…
It is a selfish notion really, I miss my pre children life, the freedom, the sense of identity, the sleep!!!
It’s hard, but I wouldn’t ever be without them but maybe we would have changed other life plans to accommodate….