Junkyard
I’d agree with you that success based on inheriting money rather than being born with ability seems unfair. And we should be aiming for equality of opportunity for all based on their potential.
However – lots of the success of the kids from well-off families is not necessarily down to the money the parents have. Some of it may be down to innate ability and the genetics of being born to parents who may earn more because they are more intelligent, some of it may be down to being brought up in an atmosphere where education and work are valued more.
Another aspect is the way that amongst boys in some groups (social and ethnic) it is not seen as cool to study or to achieve.
And then you introduce the Class Warrior – Oxbridge thing… well the colleges there are reaching out trying to recruit excellence, but lots of State Schools seem not to be pushing their pupils in that direction. It is changing though. And in 2009/10 73% of the Oxford University intake was from households with an income of less than £50,000 per year. This hardly suggests that most people get in because of tons of parental dosh does it?