Private and Oxbridge – but that was because North Bucks then had shocking comp schools, whilst South Bucks had decent grammars. I went over the border in to Beds, to a school which was then “direct grant” so actually about 75% of the pupils were fully paid for by the state sector and admitted on merit and potential rather than money. So, for those of you too young to know about Direct Grant schools, you can guess what happened to them…
My kids have gone to the local excellent comp and the eldest now goes across the border to a grammar school in Kent for 6th form. I cannot think of a private school within 25 miles I’d want my kids to go to. And my sons grammar school gets better results than many of them.
My brother lives where I used to, didn’t finish 6th form at the same direct grant school, became an apprentice, did really well and now he paid for his kids to go back to the same school – now fully private and more expensive.
Two friends who went to Eton, send their kids to local comps.
So – no simple answer – it depends on the local schools, the kids (for many sports you are way better in the private sector – look at our Olympians), and the dosh you can afford.
But – it is a real shame this system has developed. So many countries have better systems which ensure quality and appropriate selection and streaming, and a population who generally value education and stop their kids from sabotaging others’ ways up the ladder.