Good point well made Ianmunro
As for that argument about childcare. We made a choice for my wife to be a stay at home mum, it was not a difficult choice, when you think abut the options. I be most people would choose it if money was not part of the equation. We decided to take money out of it ourselves.
I have a pretty good background knowledge, both wife and I had stay at home mums, wife was a nursery teacher and I am secondary and have seen the downsides of other people bring up your young children.
Things clearly change when they start to get older, particularly in secondary school.
But even then having a parent at home always knowing where the children are and looking after their welfare seems to me like the best option. Many of you clearly disagree but then thankfully you are not bringing my kids up. Happy days. :D :D