Thanks for all the responses guys its good to get some healthy outside opinion’s on the matter and, more importantly, highlight some issues which maybe get missed.
The fact that he wears a hearing aid should sound a note of caution, he may well be all the things you say, but like above post he may have felt threatened by your actions(laughter) — he may have lots of issues , but whatever the reason he ‘blew his top’ — straw, camels back? maybe??
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Isn’t it a bit odd that people are recommending you “go on the sick” because a 60+yr old deaf bloke had a go at you in a meeting? Or just me? Obvious course of action is to be big about it, go up to him, apologise for the misunderstanding, offer a handshake and no hard feelings etc. All done. Then get your CV out there.
And this ^
I think are important, I’m not going to go sick because of some idiot and I’ve been approached by my manager and asked if I want to pursue the matter but based on the above points I’ve decided to leave the matter as it stands. He apparently reiterated to my manager that he dislikes my humour but is willing to apologise which I suppose is fair play to him.
However, and while yes everyone is stressed and excuses can be made, I don’t go around threatening to nut people because I dislike something that is said, and I’ve had a flipping rough year. Oh well we’ll see what happens.
Only other thing I would highlight is
It sounds as though your working with a bunch of people who are fed up with their jobs and are stressed to breaking point themselves, their other behaviour that you mention sounds like a symptom of workers feeling under valued and de-motivated.
The guys I work with are a joke, absolute joke. I’m sorry but when another individual was accused by a mop for taking a back hander (with some pretty good evidence), they were ‘told off’ and that was it, even though they were in their probation period and another individual was caught picking his son up from Brighton during the working day, Brighton’s about 130 miles from where we work :?: They do nothing but take the piss and get away with it, the only reason they are stessed is because their job roles could perhaps change and they’ll actually have to work!!
I suppose for me this is the ‘final straw’ and the kick I need (no pun intended) to start looking for a new job