I hate internet ‘dating’. Mostly because I’m ginger and never have anything funny/interesting to say in an email, so I don’t get many dates
lol..
i too am one of the blessed with ‘glorious’ ginger locks..!
It did hold me back to start with i think.. combined with only being 5ft 9… a face like a smacked bum and i am also blessed with the social skills of a brick…
then I just thought.. **** it!
email people you like the look / sound of.. pick up on stuff in their profile.. and always have at least one question in any emails.. it gives the recipient something to answer and build on in a reply..
this seemed to work for me.. a couple of emails on the site.. then either MSN messenger for a bit… or a few texts and a phone chat.. then organise a date..!
don’t mess about messaging for ages.. i did this to begin with its just a waste of time and its very easy to build up false pictures of people from online communication i think..
it was a crazy crazy 6 months… so many dates and new people! i met some great people.. and am still friends with a few of them.. kinda miss the excitement in a way..
on the flipside i also met some quite frankly bizarre people and had some downright weird ‘dates’ too.. the stories i could tell! its all part of the fun though.
just be yourself and be open, and don’t get hung up on something if it goes wrong.. just move on.. lifes too short to fret.. besides.. there’s always that date next week you arranged with someone else.. ;)
and lastly never be afraid to try something new!
I Met my partner on Match.com 6 years ago in April now.. :D
Babble over.