God i’m feeling for you. 18 months for me (and still cry evey bloody night). 14 years?? huge, big, massive hugs. No expert i’m affraid but i wish my ex had talked more……leaving me alone confirmed he did’t want me or anything to do with me. You know your ex better than anyone i suppose though…
Still HUGE hugs coming your way….
Life is too important! Look what i’ve taken up since….YAY! (already need new break pads… 😈