I married and divorced pretty young, I decided I would steer clear of long term relationships, whilst I thought this wouldn't last and don't rule out getting married again, I don't think I've had a relationship last much over 6 months in the last 10 years, and it's been a blast :-) I really enjoy being single, I can't say it's better or worse than being in a relationship, it's just a different set of pro's and con's. I date but I'm not on the hunt for the 'one', as so many of my peers seem to be. You can tell with some folk that when you meet them they are desperate to work out if you could be that 'special one', where as I'm generally more worried about how good the food is. I find getting dates pretty easy, and find some basic manners, and a bit of a sense of humour go a long way!