Many thanks for the well wishes everyone, very kind of you all.
In the interest of full disclosure, I actually have an 8yo son from a previous relationship whom stays with us most weekends, plus (current) MrsSlim is a primary teacher by profession (dept-head), so we hopefully have a fairly good basis from which to start this potential new and unexpected adventure.
The biggest shock is more the case that MrsSlim was told so many years ago that she was unable to conceive so we had settled down together over the last few years fully expecting a nice selfish cruise into our golden years :)
Having never gotten her head around the idea of being a parent it is wonderful seeing her over the last couple of days as the penny slowly drops..
By the way, we both quit sugar at the start of this year – I’ve lost 5st in weight but MrsSlim has also done great to lose around 3st herself, and we are under no illusion that the health benefits of kicking sugar/refined carbs (and increased activity) has had an enormous part to play in this baby malarky..
So, I’d love to hear more about screening options and potentially what other options are available for checking baby health in early stages. Of course our biggest concern is the increased risk of conditions such as Downs as she is over 40. We’ve been told about ‘screening with a potential follow up option of anmniocentisis’ which I recall is the more invasive procedure. Are there any newer private alternatives?
Whilst I fully appreciate that this is very early days (and am very much primed for worst case scenario) – I’m keeping as calm as a cucumber outwardly – despite my current RHR increase from its norm of 54-55 to a noticeably thumpy 87-88 :o