My oldest is the same, she sometimes says she wants to be a boy , I’m pretty sure it’s just a Tom boy thing , she’s 7 this month, my youngest is the complete opposite, pink , fairies, dressing up the lot, she’s going to chew the boys up and spit them out..
The oldest one though, I Took her shopping for shorts a while back, she insisted on boys shorts , I didn’t blame her either the girls ones where crap and for a 7yr old she is big, very powerful build and very beautiful with blond pigtails, she looks right in them , she’s just a bit of a skater chick I think, she also rides a bmx but that’s my fault,
My wife always worries about it when she doesn’t Play with the girls but i knew Plenty of girls like that when I was a lad, don’t think any of them were attracted to their same sex, otherwise they wouldn’t have been hanging with us boys ?
Anyway I love her no matter what as I’m sure the original op does with his little girl,