RANT START:
My Dads a CEO and I can say its been pretty horrendous for the family. Im 22 now but hes held the position for a fairly long time. Constantly travelling and moving between countries. Ive lived in SA, Germany, US and now UK. As I grow up I realise how little hes actually been around. He’s a nice enough guy but completely work driven and I dont really know him.
It comes to the point that he comes home for a weekend between 3-5 months and still manages to spend half the time on the phone/laptop. We havent had him for any family event for more than 2 whole days in the last 10 years.
Once in a while we go with him to wherever hes going next but then its more of an excuse to travel. He wont be back till 1/2am and then be out the door in the morning before we are awake.
My sisters 15 and has virtually grown up without a dad. He cant even tell me what GCSEs shes doing (3 choices). As he gets older I can tell hes starting to regret it. Seems to try to keep us sweet and is calling more often now, etc. Works his life but I think he really enjoys it.
Ive done a few work work placements at the company and the impression I get is that they all really like him. Hes always got time for people in the business.
He’s probably a workaholic and I cant seem him slowing down yet. He’s amazing at his job and has an addictive personality. He gives plenty to the family but its not a substitute for loosing a father figure.
I think that whilst these people seem like they can manage everything perfectly at an impossible rate then your right. They’ll be sacrificing something along the way. They’re only human.
Lesson I’ve learnt? I will never put my self/family in this position. I would prefer to take a step down if that means spending more time with the family.
RANT FINISHED!