I use to go to a rough state school where I was a little **** and failed pretty much everything. All I wanted to do was join the Marines at 16. My dad had to move abroad with work and managed to sign school fees into the contract so I could finish education in the UK. I was angry at the time.
In reality, best years of my life to date! I loved boarding. Made some incredible friends got given responsibilities that I wouldn’t have got through state school. The opportunities are amazing. The school had a pub for sixth formers, golf course, equestrian club, clay pigeon shooting- the list is endless. More to the point though, it saved me. I was going nowhere at the old school but here I actually managed to get respectable GCSES (4 A*, 7 A) and then even stayed for sixth form where I got AAB. I then managed to get into Exeter Uni and now doing a Masters with a graduate programme to join when I leave. There is no way I would have got to this stage with the services offered from a state school. The extra exposure to teachers and the heavier discipline* pushed me. I learned fast that I couldn’t get away with what I use to, plus the mentality of other students is positive so you’d be a social recluse if you acted like a dick the whole time.
All in all, I can see why some parents would do it but other parents do it for the wrong reasons.. Great education and great fun.
* Punishment included being up at the football pitch at 6 in the morning and having to run laps around the muddy field- rain, snow, anything. If you didn’t show up you had to sit in the head masters office writing essays for a whole week.- had to have lunch in there too.
The other punishment was the report card. You’d have to wear full school uniform all day. In the morning you’d have t get the card signed at 7am and then every hour throughout the day for a week. Never a chance to put on your own clothes or do sport until you went to bed.