+1 for socks, Get a good quality pair with cushioning.
Its a shame the new balance don’t work as they are one of the only brands who a great range of widths in their shoes.
Asics Fuji Attack and Trail lahar are the best selling trail shoes. Good solid shoes with a good back up from the brand. Both models can come with Gore-tex which is a bonus as wet feet blister easily.
Mizuno again are great quality shoes, Wave Harrier is a good one.
Salomon look at the XA PRO.
All the above are great all round shoes that are neutral in terms of support and also break in easily. You’d be best to avoid the niche brands and more racing shoes.
Its really worth trying them on if you can, or try a mail order retailer you can order, try at home (carpet test) and send back.