You have a new puppy, but it doesn’t sound like either of you have taken any time off work for him? Would you not take any time off if you had a child? sorry to sound glib, but the two are comparable.
Dogs can be the most wonderful experience, but they are a huge lifestyle choice. However, ALL puppies are hard work. Some breeds are worse than others – terriers are right *up there*.
The first few weeks ARE hard, especially if you’ve never had a dog/puppy before. It does get better, but you are going to be living with a terror 50% of the time. after tehy’re a year old it generally gets easier.
Are you ready for walking in all weathers for at least an hour, every day?
Training him when he doesn’t want to be trained?
cleaning up after the next ‘dirty protest’?
We have a 20 week old Working Cocker Spaniel at the moment, but he’s not our first, and we love him but, Damn, puppies try your nerve. Puppies don’t ‘come easy’ to anyone, you’re going to have to work hard for this to work.
Good luck.