I’m 29, partner is 32, currently starting the IVF process (i’ll be glad when it’s over either way, it’s not making her life very pleasent). I don’t know if starting any sooner would have changed anything but it was only after 2 years of trying that we found out there was a problem. After a few procedures for her, laprioscopy etc, we’ve been told that it’s ‘undiagnosed infertility’. We’ve been lucky enough to have been offered IVF on the NHS (only one cycle compared to 3 in other areas, but you shouldn’t look a gift horse in the mouth), and have decided that we’ll give it 3 goes, if nothing happens then we’ll knock it on the head.
We were both quite ambivalent about kids,but I guess you always want what you cant have.