I met my man on a dating website 🙂
The things that attracted him to me was:
a) He had 'normal' pictures but also photos of him mountain biking which was a really good talking point
b) He was funny in his messages but wasn't trying too hard
c) He remembered all the stuff I said to him and referred to things in later conversations, which showed me that he wasn't getting me mixed up with loads of other girls he was talking to 😉
d) He took it slowly, messaged me for a few weeks, had a couple of phonecalls and then asked me out on a date.
e) He was up front and told the truth! Very important…if you lie about yourself on a dating site, you WILL get found out eventually.
We now live together and have both never been happier (cheesy, sorry!). Does any of that help?