Thanks for your responses…
My post wasn’t pending or in lieu of any antagonistic conversation with the docs.
My own father passed away with cancer earlier this year. He was older and in worse condition than FIL, but as a terminal cancer patient was sent home for his final few weeks with all the kit, care and support (medical & financial) that he needed.
By contrast, FIL has been sent home with a shrug of the shoulders, no support, no palliative care plan and a view that if you need support – get yer money out!
Doesn’t seem right to me, especially if they both end up being taken by cancer.
We DO NOT WANT a biopsy, he is way too frail… but surely there must be other indicators that would give an idea one way or the other???