Quite alarming and in a way reassuring so many of you having similar experiences. I lost my mum back in November after 8+ years coping with Alzheimer’s. It is indeed a dreadful disease, in some ways it’s kinder to the sufferer than those around witnessing the person they love fade away. My mum was lucky in some ways, aricept and anti depressants helped, and she maintained a placid and calm personality, so many get angry and violent, but the moments of frustration that she couldn’t remember simple tasks was unbearable to watch. We did see funny side sometimes, a good coping mechanism, the later stages were to be frank quite horrid, I felt terrible when mum went into full time care and visits became quite difficult for everyone.
I wish you all the best and take all the help you get offered, respite is so important for the carer, it can be a long road.
Happy to offer any advice.