I am glad to see the thread did not descend into a man v woman thing. That was not my intent at all. My wife is an amazing woman a great thoughtful mum a hard worker, she just has a way of making me feel guilty about the things I like. Example:
Me: I’m going for a ride on Sunday morning
Her: but daughter has a party
Me: well you take her and the 2 boys
Her: I cannot do that as I want to get ready to see my parents later. Oh just go.
Now I feel guilty that my daughter either won’t get to go, will go with a stressed parent. So I suck it up and don’t go and swallow the issue. That is just the latest one, but it happens over and over again.
On the whole I have a huge amount to be thankful for. 3 gorgeous well behaved kids, a stable job, a career path set out. I need to focus on positives I think.
Thanks for that replied (both on here and in messages) I am terrible and confrontation and avoid at all costs. This will simmer away until I either accept my ‘lot’ in life or I have it out again…