Molgrips – as I said, I was in the same boat as you earlier in the year.
I got the ‘why bother, get them to fork out for a professional’ questions on another forum when I asked for some wedding photography tips. Mainly from people who shoot a lot of weddings and, as far as I could tell, didn’t want any more competition. Thing was, it was pretty much the same situation: A good friend who couldn’t afford a professional wedding photographer and was willing to risk an important part of their big day taking a pretty big chance on me. That put the stress on, but talking to them, getting an idea of what they wanted, letting them know that I was happy to do it but working out of my comfort zone, etc. really helped. They’d both seen my sports shooting before, liked my style, and were more than happy for me to set my own agenda for the day.
I don’t know anything about your photographic skills, so apologies if any of this sounds really patronising. The biggest tips I got from the first wedding I ever shot:
– Scout the venue as much as you can. If you can be there for the rehearsal, brilliant.
– Talk to the celebrant in advance about where you can and can’t stand, move, be during the ceremony, and whether you can use flash in the church/venue.
– Get a shooting list from the bride of what they want by way of Formals. That helps stop family politics getting in the way of your shots.
– Have an ‘assistant’ or nobble one of the Ushers/Bridesmaids into helping you locate and arrange family members in formal shots.
– Don’t leave your camera bag in shot (my only mistake, and only in one, non-crucial shot… Still kicking myself about that one.)
– Pack a shedload of spares – camera batteries, flash batteries, memory cards etc. My camera bag weighed a ton, but I used nearly everything I carried.
– Have backups of EVERYTHING. I carry two camera bodies which take pairs of memory cards (Nikon D7000). I had one memory card glitch/corrupt on me. Fortunately, the paired setup means I didn’t lose anything.
– Have some snacks in your camera bag. It can be a long day, and champagne goes straight to your head.
– 99.9% of the time, the unexpected shots work out better than the planned ones. If you’re used to shooting sport stuff you’ve probably got good at shooting things that happen pretty quickly and you don’t get a second chance at. That’s a wedding, really.