ok, ok, blimey.i only wanted some advice.
i dont want to hassle her loads, and her think “hes a real hassle, i cant be doing with this!” i actually have a busy life myself and need my own time anyway.just dont want to give the wrong impresion.plus i only met her the other day….

ok, well just tell me your experiences pls…
and i havent got a clue what those abriviations mean…!

oh and for what its worth, because she seemed to be playing it cool, i kind of did the same, and just tried to be a gentleman etc, havent come on to her etc,but i suppose she could be just as confused about me and the signals im giving off?

Juicy-plum..flowers.safe bet, and went down a treat,not to much not to little.
anyhow this is a different lady..
anyway,keep em coming these are good!

ononeorange, i think that the closest thing to the truth.right now its an adjustment thing for me.

the main prob is the house is remote so nobody ever passes buy and if i do ever tempt a bird into coming back, once the cab comes of the main road onto the loooong farm road she’ll think she is entering the blair witch project!

bunnyhop, theres absolutly nothing wrong with what youre asking. ive used loreal for me facial cleaner for a while.get the greasy forhead muck off a treat and makes your face feel tiptip. dont yet moisturise yet.thing with blokes is we dont think we need to do it so forget or cant be bothered.with women its a given thats what you do.
basically as said before, hold back on the nookie and he’ll soon tow the line.simples.

neil…. and a regularish legover helps too…

i know.what with kids and all i will be in this town for at least twenty years.i was quite smug for a while when i used to walk home from works piss up etc while all the others ran for trains, lifts etc.
oh how it all has changed now.
best thing was i never got a pension together as she always said the house would be our pension when wer down sized at retirement. now thats gone to… well not for her tho 🙁
repeat, must cheer up, must cheer up…..

what sort of deposit do people want these days anyway?

muchos BHP

will equal shed loads of fuel if you ever drive it like it was designed to be.
just cos its frugal when driven at a constant 58mph on a motorway doesnt mean you wont spend loads on fuel….the bigger the bhp the heavier your right foot will become!

Is there any online way of "checking" coverage and signal strength for certain areas?

so do dongles generally work just as well as wired if you have decent coverage?

a beenie hat or something simular.when "warm lager" 😯 suddenly falls out of the sky onto your head,you will thank me!

look out for the aldi cycling week promo which may well be on soon as the weather cool (or have i missed that as well, like i did the summer one!)
cheap gear which actually isnt that bad (my altura £55 tights just had a load of stiching come apart!)and is preatty cheap to boot .good for first timers.be quick tho, its sells fast!!

couple of lucky second chance offers in the past as well..

original 70's rocket lamp.most sell for up to £50.(i have interesting taste)this had no pic and i chanced the minimum bid of two quid.
char ching!
and they let me take three months to get a mate to collect it as it wasnt in my area.

got a coal bunker so about 1 1/2 sq meters.

This is gross…
note;i read to the end 😳

I kind of agree on the real ale a few are fantastic but lots are "wanna be's"in my opinion.and again imho when something really good does get created it tends to eventually go into lots of pubs and be commonly found everywhere thus not realing classing it as niche "real ale"
i could be wrong tho…

the film "oh brother where art thou"
sorry but i just didnt get it at all… 😯

they just fookin rock!end of. its not just the lyrics or melody but the overal quality of the songs they made.very few bands come close in my book.
there you go, presedent set….

heartbreaker is the shizzle! the guitar half way tho…oh just so good
but then so is so many of there tunes. top quality!

ok thanks for that.i think it could be interesting moving into "her" house, and then trying to lay down the rules…

OK im doing what you all say.end of.you are all correct and in my gut i knew that all along.end of thread.cheers all.

quit the cr@p about trolling.i need advice.

ok, im getting the point,soliciter hunt begins tommorrow!

ha ha that even made me laugh! 😆

but most soliciters ive spoken too want about £300 upfront.is this not the norm?

i do know what you mean.part of me thought ill happily pay the £4000 perhaps, cos at least then i know thats all.no hidden costs and she stays here, and my name wont be on the new house.
im going to see a soliciter tommorrow who hopefully can give me legal aid, but im now thinking, sod the aid ill just pay as much as i can up front!
one detail that is wrong in my OP.it isnt my morgage here, i just guarentee it.its not in my name, but there may be some detail where by its my money that pays it indirectly
oh and this isnt a troll, its the woman i loved, mother of my children turning into a monster.i may be nieve but i also am kind and trusted her.(too much!)

csa will be there regardless.i wont deny my kids anything.most guys i know pay sod all in respect of what it costs to "run" kids.

its embarrassing to admit but i know nothing about money…as im sure you are realising!!
oh and punctuation!

i also overheard bits of a phone call to her sister which included phrases like "blah blah percentage blah balh well of course i wouldnt tell him that" and "yeah he just wont make up his mind about signing" and
"he probably doesnt realise that" etc etc

frankenstein is most correct.
we are splitting.im getting over the hurt and getting more suspecting of her.
this isnt a last ditch repair.we were in the process of moving before all this came out.
the new house would be better for the kids and her and im happy to help her out if it is genuine help,but seeing what has happened recently i dont trust her now.she has never messed me around in eleven years previously.for sure.
when i met her she was covering the cost of our current house as a single mum who didnt work.when we declared my money,got a joint account and went "legit" we actually lost out by around £500 per month.
she has put all the figure on paper and explained till blue in the face but the fact is i dont trust her.if she hadnt cheated and wanted an amicable split i would have done it ,no question.
the 4k breaks down roughly too include
our £1000 overdraft-not relavent but needs to be paid
£700 morgage canellation fee(apparently)
£300 surveyor
£2000 soliciter

go on flame me away!

i def dont trust her.she was married before and she then owned the house outright.no morgage.as the law stands she then had to take out a morgage to pay off her ex husbands share.she has always been really bitter about this and just didnt seem to "get" the fact that thats just the way it works…
but im trying to work "what possible that she could do"?

yeah, the other week she said it was 2500, then this week its nearer 4000?
it also surveyors,structual survey, morgage being reworked etc etc..

any advance on £500-600?

£1300 new.

Hmmm, maybe renting a cheap little car would be better really.especially with all the railways "flexible" rules about bikes.

tommid.
im central cambridge.

thetford os ok but i dont think its worth the hassle by train.rather be three hours ride to somewhere good.

what about north downs area?anyone know?

i thought brain was illegal in the uk?
i did nearly have it in a swanky restaurant in oz.
thing is it was so expensive i went for the safe option of a steak.