Once again, thanks to Tired and the multiple other posters giving massively useful insight. It really is appreciated.
Tough times in this household, 4 year old now in two weeks isolation, and my teacher wife just coming out of two weeks.
I speak inevitably as someone close to the situation and therefore more emotionally influenced, but I think to the points around transparency and clear communication, simple acknowledgment and empathy would go a long way. Have the government ever acknowledged the real, prolonged impact of asking teachers to do what they do every day, keeping it normal for the kids, not wearing PPE, watching their colleagues catch it and in some cases become very ill as a result, worrying about being the transmission vector to their families and loved ones.
As Tired has so rightly said, there are no good choices here. But as others, Pondlife included have said, better communication around these difficult choices and transparency would go a long way.
Pondlife, very sorry to hear about your first officer.