Take people and their problems on a case by case basis – The whole “talk about it” thing can too easily come across as a platitude – People do talk all the time about how they want to end things and then follow through with it – I attended a funeral this year – He’d spoken for years about the darkness he encountered- on the face of it he had an OK life – nice girlfriend and a loving family – He was found hanging in a carpark on a cold damp winter’s morning in a London carpark ..