Tony,
Sorry to hear your news, firstly I hope your wife is starting to feel a bit better both physically and mentally.
As a few people have said one seizure doesn’t mean epilepsy. I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was 12 and I’m now 46, I’ve only a few grand mal seizures as its controlled by medication.
As a grown up having a seizure can be very distressing, as well as the obvious potential for injury depending on circumstances (sorry don’t mean to scare you) you come round and feel like you’ve done 12 rounds with Mike Tyson and normally a nasty cut to the tongue. I used to feel very embarrassed and self concious of course emptying your bladder as part of the muscle spasms doesn’t help much either. Luckily I found a lot of TLC from my wife helped.
Touch wood I’ve been seizure free for several years, I take my meds as prescribed (I see that as a small sacrifice) and try to cut out as many things that can trigger seizures such as stress, lack of sleep (not great for bikepacking!) and sadly alcohol. Without a doubt the biggest pain is the loss of driving licence but it might not come to that. I’m now driving again but with a licence that gets renewed every couple of years.
Luckily for me my consultant actually encourages me to get out and ride as he says riding is a great way of de-stressing my body. Sometimes my wife gets anxious if I’m on my own but I’ve just got a Spot Tracker so that puts her mind at rest a bit.
Like I said fingers crossed it’s a one off and she wont be diagnosed with epilepsy but if she is it’s not the end of the world although I appreciate that’s easy for me to say.
Are you going to Bearstock? If you are and you want a quick chat just yell otherwise feel free to drop me a line (email in profile).
Thinking of you both,
Mark