That title could be miscontrued – “ridding me of the mrs”! Lose a ‘d’ lol.
Most if not all of my riding is with the mrs. 18 months ago she persuaded a lardy me to buy us some bikes. She was thinking something with a shopping basket to pootle along the canal towpath. 4 months in we both had hardtails and 2 short travel full sussers. Now she’s fully padded up inc. full facer if needed.
She is more tentative than me (read sensible) but much fitter. She is encouraging my fitness and weight loss by riding together, and I am pushing her to try new stuff in terms of mild gnarl.
We’re both pretty crap but having a blast. We don’t get enough time together due to busy working lives so this has been fantastic.
Depends if you like the mrs or not and whether you can get her into it and to progress. Situation is different as we started together and she would be playing catch up. Whatever you do don’t spoil it by making (encouraging) her to do stuff she is not happy with (this will vary ride to ride) and also keep the ‘coaching’ to the minimum as this can be received as criticism.
We have time booked with a female coach together in a few weeks (she’s happy about that) and I can’t wait. Certainly need some coaching – me that is.