The less I do, the less I want to do
This is a horrible trap that I tend to find myself in.
But the opposite is also true. The more you get out ‘n about, the easier it becomes – at least for me.
I can’t really offer any advice on your job or relationship, but you probably need to concentrate on getting yourself in a good state of mind before you can fix any those issues. One step at a time, try ‘n find something that you like doing that’s easy, and do it more. This might be going for a walk, a run, taking in the scenery – fresh air is good for you 🙂
I’d say bike ride, but even I find that a faff sometimes 😉