No apologies from me and I feel the current situation is dire and desperate.
I still do feel that it is hard to put yourself in the position of the Israelis.
Imagine if you can, living in a small country bordered by hostile states. Normal parts of everyday life include the constant fear of attack, bomb shelters are everywhere, as is serving in the armed forces and knowing people who have lost their lives during their conscription or reserve service. Uniformed teenage boys and girls sit in bars and cafes and on buses with their automatic weapons.
The concept of a village does not exist, small communities are built in defendable positions, are surrounded by fencing and there is a rota for guard duty. If travelling between towns you would take your hand gun without question.
With the legacy of the “final solution” still just within living memory, the Israelis chose to show no more weakness, to them this means replying to a pin prick with a punch in the face. The situations in the surrounding countries are relevant because they feel threatened, these actions are as much a message to those around them than to those who are being targeted.
Jewish Kindergartens and schools have often been targeted in the past and when, unfair, concessions were made on land this just furthered the desire to overthrow the state.
It’s hard to imagine how living like this may affect your judgement.
I wish there could be a peaceful solution to the situation, the only effective leverage would be to withdraw arms supplies and sales. As we know the US and UK governments both like the money too much and are not that adverse to collateral civilian damage either.